Dear Poo,

I understand that you are just looking out for my best interests. And I had originally planned to use the realtor that is the wife of a friend. But as I told you a couple of days ago, I want to give this guy a try. he seems to be really interested in making this happen for me. The right way. He's not pushy, he seems honest.

In case you haven't noticed, I like to do things my way. I will listen, but if I have mapped a course of action, I'm going to follow it. I know you are worried, I know you have experience in home buying. But I think you have not noticed that the more you push me, the more stubborn I will be. Maybe you are forgetting because you have been drinking, I don't know. But when I am ready for help. I will ask for it. I like to do things my way. Being lectured will only piss me off.

sincerely,
G

PS-I decided that there were too many issues with this home both personal and structural.
PSS- BTW, telling me that I'm just like my mother in the middle of arguments or when I disagree with you? not a good way to win me over to your side of the argument.