tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424437.post115092515584667831..comments2023-07-26T05:04:09.107-07:00Comments on The Rants and Raves of a Monster: FamilyUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424437.post-1150992671650912672006-06-22T09:11:00.000-07:002006-06-22T09:11:00.000-07:00Gary, I totally agree. Sensei, I am quite sure the...Gary, I totally agree. <BR/><BR/>Sensei, I am quite sure they talk trash behind my back, they talk trash about everyone. Point being, that it frustrates me that they are surprised when I show up, because I'm never around, but that's because I'm rarely invited. (join me now in a head shaking dirested at them)Ginamonsterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14708004928074429212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424437.post-1150986692545094632006-06-22T07:31:00.000-07:002006-06-22T07:31:00.000-07:00In my family, actually my wife's family, when they...In my family, actually my wife's family, when they take the time ti say, "We really appreciate you being here," or, "What a wonderful surprise to see you," it means that five minutes before you showed up, they were talking about how great it was that you were not there.<BR/><BR/>I know this, because my wife's exhusband would show up at family get togethers, like Memorial Day and Christmas, after my wife and I did, and they said those things about him. The reason he showed up was because he was married to her for twenty years, and it was habit for him to go there for those times.<BR/><BR/>nsxpvkk: If people don't want you around, find people who do. When you live a life full of friends, then those who rejected you will want to make amends. (Wow, off the top of my head poetry. I HATE poetry!)Senseihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00491064563076330773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424437.post-1150981718945324392006-06-22T06:08:00.000-07:002006-06-22T06:08:00.000-07:00I can't see what you can do other than what you ar...I can't see what you can do other than what you are already doing. It sounds like one of those situations with no easy answers.Garyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11104981732733112853noreply@blogger.com