tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424437.post113745659825818120..comments2023-07-26T05:04:09.107-07:00Comments on The Rants and Raves of a Monster: PerfectionUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424437.post-1137567345663076362006-01-17T22:55:00.000-08:002006-01-17T22:55:00.000-08:00Your right to expect someone to change right away ...Your right to expect someone to change right away is wrong. Let me give you an example of the changes that don't make you change who you are. <BR/>Here I am single and everyday i go to the titty bar and have a couple of drinks with my friends. On the weekends I sleep all day and smoke and drink all night looking for chicks in bars. I drive my car like I have nothing to live for. I come home only to sleep and shower 3 or 4 times a week. I love kids and want to have a family. Im a cristain man. I would give the world to a good woman to share her life with me. I wont cheat on her I wont lie to her. She would be more important to me than me.<BR/><BR/>NOW: I went to the grocery store to buy some frozen dinners. I met this girl who is wonderful. I gave her my number because she was to shy to give me hers. I have been waiting in anticipation for her to call. If she called me I would not have to go to the titty bar with the boys every day. I would have a reason to wake up in the weekend mornings. I wouldn't be out smoking and drink fri. and sat. night. There would be something to come home to everyday. someone to build a family life with. There wouldn't be time for my friends anymore. who really cares thats not the life I want to live. Thats not me Im a family man who believes in god. I want children. I wouldnt have to change a thing about me, because she wants the same thing. I wont be depressed anymore so I wont need the pot to kill the pain of an unhappy life. I wont need the titty bars anymore. I hope she calls me I wont have to change a thing about me. God I will be more than happy to clean up my act. I know she dont want a life like that. Hell niether do I. Atleast this will be a good reason to live right.<BR/><BR/>Well Gina am I more clear about my point now? I agree with you that you not only shouldn't change someone you cant change someone. Thier lifesyle will change because they are with someone new. But if that person is selfish you wont be able to change that. If that person is generous you cant change that. if that person is dishonest you cant change that. Qualities wether good or bad.Can not be changed. Drugs is an abuse to yourself. Its not the type of per son you are. If your in to deep you wont stop for no one. If it doesnt have you so strongly you could be willing to let go.Sandro Palacioshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16350402587149295630noreply@blogger.com